So Far from the Bamboo Grove by Yoko Kawashima Watkins
I liked this book a lot better of the two paired books but I can definitely see how it would be very uncomfortable to teach for some. I feel like i have mixed views on this topic because I fell that in certain situations, that this book would be inappropriate because of your class make up or the are you may be in teaching. When the school is right and there is a go ahead from everybody I would approach these books by sending home a note and explaining to the children about the mature content they will be en counting, and this way I would be able to cover all of my bases. This would be a great book to use during a WWII unit about a Japanese family forced to flee their home in Korea.